The Him Category

HNT : SexyWife’s Tattoo

Thursday, November 2nd, 2006

As a Half-Nekkid Thursday post, this one is moderately not-safe for work, as detailed in our about page Follow the link below to see this weeks’ arguably safe for work picture.

Nothing risque about this picture, unless permanently marking someone as yours is risque. Confused? Click the link to see a sexy ear, or something.

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A Happy Him is a Well-Laid Him

Wednesday, November 1st, 2006

Every now and then, I have an exceptionally good day. Tuesday evening and Wednesday counts. This is the story of that day, and what I did with Girl and SexyWife.

It is tagged as ‘adult’ and a lot of other things that are not safe for work. Check our about page for more information about this tagging scheme. The link below will take you to the full article.
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Update on Him

Wednesday, August 23rd, 2006

Almost a week with nothing. Nary a story a sex scene nor a musing of any sort. Well, not to worry.

I’ve done a lot this past week, a lot for my own amusment, and some for your future amusement. Read on..


My birthday was a rousing success. And an arousing one.� SexyWife and I spent time together Thursday night (as you saw from the last post).� Girl came over early Friday morning, and we had some breakfast/lunch and came back to my place for gifts and some Him-in-the-middle happy-fun-action.� I wish we’d had more time, but we were expecting World of Warcraft-based company, and SexyWife had to pack for her impending trip on Saturday.

We did have fun, and as the lucky man I am, I can request an encore later;)

I put SexyWife on the plane early the next morning. Our ever-vigilant TSA officers said nothing about the liquids she (rightfully) carried.� I feel safer already.� I returned home to nap, or as I actually did, play WoW.� I now have a level 60 Mage on Staghelm server.� Tam is going to get her the good water and the Cinnabuns, and have fun with her. I’m done for a while.

Cause I’m finished with that whole MMO madness thing,right?

Wrong.� My friend Kit has talked me into playing City of Villains with them for a while. I played a bit on Saturday and Sunday, before going to see Girl.� Her hubby was leaving Sunday night to their shared cabin (where her 4yo currently is).� So for the past three days or so, it’s been just the two of us.� Girl’s hubby comes back late tonight, and I pick SexyWife up from the airport.

Girl and I had a very hot scene (she really needed to be punished) Monday night.� We did more extreme breathplay than we’ve done before, and I know I need to learn more about it to be safe.� I’d say safer, but nothing we do is safe, so it seems redundant.� Breathplay isn’t “safe,” but it is hot. I’ll write more about it soon.� I also did one of my favorite things, which is to hurt her breasts.� She complains they are too small, but she reacts so well when I touch/lick/taste/abuse them.� It was good.

It’s also time for birthday spakings.� Her birthday was the 11th, and last year at the cabin, I gave her n+1 spankings (you know, “to grow on” or “because I wanted to”). There was some disagreement about the actual count: she claimed I’d given her n+2 spakings.� I claimed she was wrong.� We still haven’t settled it, since SexyWife — the true obsessive counter of us all — wasn’t there to know for sure.� I settled it by doing it again.� (And she said I miscounted again, but not until much, much later.)�

This year she’s offered her ass up to take spankings for my birthday as well, so I owe her over 70 spankings.� Assuming she doesn’t get the count wrong again.� I’ve thought some about doing it at Cupids this weekend, with SexyWife’s help.� I’ll know more about that Thursday once I talk to her.

I’m mostly happy Girl is willing to do that part of a scene in public. She’s more a voyeur than an exhibitionist, so she’s not really interested in having sex in a public or semi- public place.� When I scene, the world shuts down to just me and the person or people I’m scening with, so sex comes naturally as part of it.� My main concern is that she won’t be able to get to that point, because the people there will keep breaking her out of that space.

I’ve heard that can happen at Cupid’s anyway, so if it’s not intense, I wouldn’t go there either.

Not that I’m really shy, SexyWife and I were the morning alarm at some of the events we’ve been to together.

On the 31st, I’m headed to Portland.� It’ll be the furthest west I’ve been, from the looks of the maps Portland isn’t quite close enough to the Pacific Ocean that I’ll get to see it on this trip. To be totally honest, I want to take J and Viv out to dinner, and I want to fuck them over and over until I collapse.

That’s probably not what will happen, but I suspect I’ll at least sate my appetite for boysex:)

I’ll write more on that later.

Speakign of writing, I’m having a lot of fun with Writely, Google’s web-based word processor. Kit and I have been plotting with design documents that we edit at the same time and like a good CVS, it keeps revisions, and automerges our changes. It also speaks blogger and a couple other blog dialects, that imply I’ll be able to post here with it, once I get that written.

I’ve written part 2 of my MasterPC story now, and am hard at work on part 3. And on Archiving, fixing the RSS feed, and that whole api thing.

If I sound busy, well I like it that way.� But it will be slow, because I like to stop and smell the flowers and cuddle the lovers along the way.�

Who is Him?

Saturday, July 15th, 2006

Kind of plays with your desire for good English, doesn’t it?? I know it’ll drive Girl batty, and that’s just another way that I’m a sadist.

I’m a dominant and a sadist; a programmer and a writer.? I’ve written erotica under the name “GenericJoe” and “Joe Tortuga” (and a mashing of the two.? I’ve been published, under my real name, so probably no public office for Him.? I go by “Joe” online, although that isn’t my name.? There are two wonderful women who often call me “Sir,” although I hear they have less flattering names they don’t dare call me to my face.

I’m a creative person, in all my fascinations, programming,writing, and sex.? I hope to find a career that binds all these together.

This is my sex blog, my personal space.

Welcome.

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